Dear Bunmi,
I’m married to my childhood
sweetheart. We lived together for a few years then got married three
years ago. He’s a lovely and responsible man and I’m lucky to have him.
We have a great relationship, apart from the physical side. His
love-making no longer turns me on as it used to.
Love-gone-sour
I’ve never considered cheating on him though lately, I’ve told myself that if the chance arose, I might just go for it.
I love my husband very much and we have a cute one-year-old son. He’s
very extroverted and I’m sure he’ll be terribly hurt if this marriage
breaks so would I. Is there any way out of this.
Mabel, by e-mail
Dear Mabel,
Your even considering sleeping with another man at this early stage
of your marriage shows a catastrophic rift in your relationship with a
husband you’re supposed to be in love with. You must move carefully so
as not to give wrong signal to your husband who might sense your
discontent. Your marriage obviously means a lot to both of you and you
had a fulfilling sexual relationship once. So what went wrong? You need
to have a serious discussion with your husband. Sex is a very important
part of married life. Tell him how
to please you, and if possible, take the initiative. He is your
better half and you shouldn’t have secrets from him. There is also your
son to think about. Marriage is not the wild bed of passion we all take
it to be. Resentments occur once in a while and you should resolve
them; not rush into the arms of another man! A good marriage, such as
you have, is worth fighting for.
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